My Thoughts .

Ever since I clocked 23, I have been stressing about life. The pressure to be the best version of me and especially of acquiring success has been eating me up. There’s nothing wrong with wanting those things but I feel like I’m working towards a clock, and I only have a specific period of time to do these things. I think it’s just what society has made me believe. “I have to be in school at this age, I have to get married at a certain age, have kids at that age, bla bla bla….” Listening to people and the norm messes with your vibe LOL. Everyone has a TIME, and it is specific to just YOU. Kind of like how everyone is special and unique in their own way, same way people have different moments life happens for them. I can’t sit here and dwell on how a girl I went to school with who’s also 23, is married with a kid. Why exactly should that bother me? It doesn’t mean I have failed as a human being because I’m not there YET. Never ever look at someone’s life and feel bad ab...

Hi Everyone, It's been ages! I'm not even going to make excuses for being MIA. So, let’s get on with it...shall we? The most important thing to me is my authenticity and that is exactly what most of my readers cherish about my blog. Be rest assured that, what I post is real, genuine and not sugar coated at all. The truth is, I stayed away from blogging because I have always known my writing to be connected to my emotions and lately, they have been chocking and all shades of crazy. I wasn’t sure I wanted to share because, irrespective of my transparency, I am also a very private person. However, a certain someone said to me “I think it’s the time for you to write. Put your emotions into writing…you have the FUEL”. Ok!   You guys want the truth? The truth you shall have. My name is Simi and this is my story…. HAHHAHAH. Sounds dramatic huh? Anyway, I won't be spilling any tea today but trust me I have some. However, this is a welcome back post and I will be very act...